The impossibility of compatibility and the imperfect nature of communication seems to make interpersonal interaction frustratingly fruitless so often to encourage a hard edge approach to how one operates in life.
If like some [me] you do not have the personable wit and intrinsically likeable personality to make you a good leader and pleasant company, than it makes more sense not to fight this and to focus on this hard edge approach.
To embrace the alternative . . . that short of failing at the accomplishment of your own goals you must find a way to negotiate the seemingly adversaries nature of the society to achieve the results you want. In this search there is a true solitude.
It’s . . .the human condition, the Existential dilemma that arises from our perceptive abilities exceeding our rather primitive physiology and emotional makeup. In the end it kills everyone on some level but if you want to make some money off it just remember:
“You’re an artist and no one understands you.” – Meh